ASP, MYsql, Connection...

Ok I have the mySQL server but I dont know how to make a table or edit it the little mysql admin thing doesnt let me create only view. the documentation said something about being able to edit but I didnt understand it

Also once I have my database created and such how do I connect to it remotly I wanted to connect to the database from another computer. lets say my ip is 255.255.255.255 and the port is 8081.
Can someone tell me the complete code to connect because if you guys go off and give me a tutorial or hint at it. I wont ever figure it out and youll find me back here in a bout 2 days asking even more lol. If your wondering I've tried tutorials and they havent gotten me anywhere.

If you guys could help me that would make me so happy.

You really should check out google - something like "mysql beginner" - there are literally thousand of tutorials on the web (many are even on THIS VERY SITE) on how to setup mysql, create databases, tables, connections.... all the basics. Posting it all here again would just be redundant. Learn to use google effectively and life will become soooo much simpler.

well that doesnt answer my second question. how would I remotly connecT?

You said in your initial post you can't figure things out from hints or tutorials?
You won't learn anything with hostility either...

Have you bothered at all with the Mysql documentation?
Hint: its there for a reason...

From the sounds of it, you haven't accessed the MySQL console locally, I think connecting remotely is beyond scope yet...
evidentally, the answer for both is the same...

mysql.exe databasename -h (ip-address|localhost) -u username -p