Another Apache VirtualHost Problem Thread...

Hey all --
Been working on this a loong time, trying to figure it out.

Here's The Setup: *sigh*

1.) Domain name 'mysite.com' is sent to ns0 - ns4.dnsmadeeasy.com.
2.) ns<n>.dnsmadeeasy.com sends to 111.111.111.111
2b.) CNAME records www.mysite.com, neo.mysite.com, ftp.mysite.com, and mail.mysite.com
all point to mysite.com .
3.) 111.111.111.111 (all standard ftp, mail, www, etc ports) goes through the router into internal 192.168.0.2.
4.) Apache, PHP, MySQL on an XP system... (too lazy to learn Linux, I guess.)
4b.) The dreaded httpd.conf file:

NameVirtualHost *

<VirtualHost *>
ServerAdmin admin@mysite.com
DocumentRoot /Apache/htdocs/mysite/htdocs/mail/
ServerName mail.mysite.com
ErrorLog /Apache/logs/mail.mysite-error_log
CustomLog /Apache/logs/mail.mysite-access_log common
</VirtualHost>

<VirtualHost *>
ServerAdmin neo@mysite.com
DocumentRoot /Apache/htdocs/neo/htdocs
ServerName neo.mysite.com
ErrorLog /Apache/logs/neo-mysite-error-log
CustomLog /Apache/logs/neo-mysite-access-log common
</VirtualHost>

<VirtualHost *>
ServerAdmin admin@mysite.com
DocumentRoot /Apache/htdocs/mysite/htdocs
ServerName www.mysite.com
ServerAlias mysite.com
ErrorLog /Apache/logs/mysite-error-log
CustomLog /Apache/logs/mysite-access-log common
</VirtualHost>

# (This is after MUCH working and playing with things -- I have tried substituing the * with everything from
# 127.0.0.2 to 192.168.0.2 to 111.111.111.111 to *:80 and beyond to trying to get the subdomains to work...

The Problem:

When I go to 'mysite.com', it goes to the main directory...not the DocumentRoot I specified under the VirtualHost. UNLESS I substitute <*:80> for the <*>, then it will go to mail.mysite.com no matter what, and I can rearrange the subdomains to my hearts content, and it will always go to the first one listed, despite what I type in.

Please show my where I'm stupid, so I can move on to proving it in another area....

Thanks for your time!

Check out the docs at http://httpd.apache.org/docs/vhosts/name-based.html, particularly the bottom section.