Help needed Apache mod_ssl named virtual hosts

after many many hours of googling i'm getting a bit frustrated.
Our production box is Win server 2003 running Apache + php.
we have one client we site set up with SSL that is running fine adding the second one is a nightmare.
here are the relevant conf directives.


ssl.conf:
Listen 443
Listen 444

#domain 1
<VirtualHost XXX.XXX.XXX.XXX:443>
DocumentRoot "c:/webpath../https/"
ServerName www.domain_1.ca:443
ServerAdmin user@domain_1.ca
ErrorLog logs/error_log
TransferLog logs/access_log
SSLEngine on
SSLCipherSuite ALL:!ADH:!EXPORT56:RC4+RSA:+HIGH:+MEDIUM:+LOW:+SSL v2:+EXP:+eNULL
SSLCertificateFile "c:/apachepath/apache2/conf/ssl/www.domain_1.ca.crt"
SSLCertificateKeyFile "c:/apachepath/apache2/conf/ssl/www.domain_1.ca.key"
<Files ~ "\.(cgi|shtml|phtml|php3?)$">
SSLOptions +StdEnvVars
</Files>
SetEnvIf User-Agent ".*MSIE.*" \
nokeepalive ssl-unclean-shutdown \
downgrade-1.0 force-response-1.0
CustomLog logs/ssl_request_log \
"%t %h %{SSL_PROTOCOL}x %{SSL_CIPHER}x \"%r\" %b"
</VirtualHost>


#domain 2
<VirtualHost XXX.XXX.XXX.XXX:444>
DocumentRoot "c:/webpath../https/"
ServerName www.domain_1.ca:444
ServerAdmin user@domain_1.ca
ErrorLog logs/error_log
TransferLog logs/access_log
SSLEngine on
SSLCipherSuite ALL:!ADH:!EXPORT56:RC4+RSA:+HIGH:+MEDIUM:+LOW:+SSL v2:+EXP:+eNULL
SSLCertificateFile "c:/apachepath/apache2/conf/ssl/www.domain_2.ca.crt"
SSLCertificateKeyFile "c:/apachepath/apache2/conf/ssl/www.domain_2.ca.key"
<Files ~ "\.(cgi|shtml|phtml|php3?)$">
SSLOptions +StdEnvVars
</Files>
SetEnvIf User-Agent ".*MSIE.*" \
nokeepalive ssl-unclean-shutdown \
downgrade-1.0 force-response-1.0
CustomLog logs/ssl_request_log \
"%t %h %{SSL_PROTOCOL}x %{SSL_CIPHER}x \"%r\" %b"
</VirtualHost>



httpd.conf
Listen XXX.XXX.XXX.XXX:80
Listen XXX.XXX.XXX.XXX:443
Listen XXX.XXX.XXX.XXX:444

.....

#<IfModule mod_ssl.c>
Include conf/ssl.conf
#</IfModule>

NameVirtualHost XXX.XXX.XXX.XXX:443

<VirtualHost XXX.XXX.XXX.XXX:443>
ServerName www.domain_1.ca
DocumentRoot "C:/webpath/https/"
Alias assets "C:/webpath/client_1dir/assets/"
SSLEngine on
SSLCipherSuite ALL:!ADH:!EXP56:RC4+RSA:+HIGH:+MEDIUM:+LOW:+SSLv2: +EXP:+eNULL
SSLCertificateFile "c:/apachepath/apache2/conf/ssl/domain_1.ca.crt"
SSLCertificateKeyFile "c:/apachepath/apache2/conf/ssl/domain_1.ca.key"
</VirtualHost>

NameVirtualHost XXX.XXX.XXX.XXX:444

<VirtualHost XXX.XXX.XXX.XXX:444>
ServerName www.domain_2.ca
DocumentRoot "C:/webpath/https/"
Alias assets "C:/webpath/client_2dir/assets/"
SSLEngine on
SSLCipherSuite ALL:!ADH:!EXP56:RC4+RSA:+HIGH:+MEDIUM:+LOW:+SSLv2: +EXP:+eNULL
SSLCertificateFile "c:/apachepath/apache2/conf/ssl/www.domain_2.ca.crt"
SSLCertificateKeyFile "c:/apachepath/apache2/conf/ssl/www.domain_2.ca.key"
</VirtualHost>



<VirtualHost www.domain_1.ca:80>
DocumentRoot "C:/webpath/client_1dir"
ServerName www.shopsickkids.ca
<Directory "C:/webpath/client_1dir">
allow from all
Options +Indexes
</Directory>
ServerAlias domain_1.ca
</VirtualHost>


<VirtualHost www.domain_2.ca:80>
ServerName www.domain_2.ca
DocumentRoot "C:/webpath/client_2dir"
<Directory "C:/webpath/client_2dir">
allow from all
Options +Indexes
</Directory>
ServerAlias domain_2.ca
</VirtualHost>

/end conf info

both domains apps off to the "C:/webpath/https/" for a secure checkout...

when the conf directives for the second domain are uncommented I get
SSLPassPhraseDialog builtin is not supported on Win32
in the apache error log, no problem with the first domain only. the apache and mod_ssl docs are pretty useless as far a what to do in that the don't explain what
SSLPassPhraseDialog exec:/path/to/program
is supposed to point to other than the generic example "pp-filter".

both keys were created in the same fashion so I don't understand where the issue is or what program I can use for PassPhrase-filter. A dialogue for passphrase does not come up on a manual restart